Tuesday, May 22, 2007

A Satuday schedule

Mommy got to spend 24 hours with QY last saturday, being a full time mother for a day.

As usual, QY attended the weekly phonic class on satuday morning, 11am-12 noon. I have been enrolled her since she was 18 months old. So far she has progressed rather well and most important is, she enjoys and having fun during the class very much.



















After class, we drove her to a saloon for hair cut. This is the 3rd time she has her 'formal' haircut in saloon. I intend to keep her hair long but she is so reluctant to let us tied her hair. Mommy will try to keep her hair till shoulder length, but still need QY's cooperation when comes to hair tieding time.

























Back to our house, after bath time, mommy put her on her favourite dress - Disney princess character bought for her from the market. Nowadays, QY is so fond of character like Barbie Doll and Princess.

























In the evenning, she dress up and get ready to attend ah mah's birthday dinner



















We celebrathed MIL 61st birthday at Tanjung country chinese restaurant. QY was so sweet, she even sang the birthday song solo for her ah mah... Ah mah was so happy that her grandchild has grown up from a newborn to a little girl that sang birthday song to wish her.

Thursday, May 17, 2007

Child's education

I have started to think of this topic ever since QY was 5 months old. I deeply believe that higher education is the gateway to a child’s future. It opens minds, which leads to endless opportunities. Therefore, it would be the most expensive gift that a parent will ever and must give to their beloved child. Not only it is a ‘gift’ to our kids, it is also our responsibility as a parent to do so in view of the highly competitive environment.

I attended several financial planning topic on how to fund our child education lately, and I thought it is good to share with all parents who might interested.:-

1) Do nothing ~ Some parent may not think that saving for child education is as important as planning for buying house, retirement and etc. In their top 3 priority list, buying house, buying luxury car and others may have filled up the list. When times come gradually, this group of parent will have to apply for a study loan from a financial institute bearing the rather high interest rate and the prescribed repayment period. If a choice is given, do u still want to consider this option?
2) Scholarship ~ When planning for child education, we shouldn’t include scholarship. Whether our child receive a scholarship or other form of financial aid, this should be treated as bonuses to parent ONLY.
3) Save on our own ~ this can be saving in the bank or unit trust. But one thing for sure is we must start as early as we can, the earlier we start the more time we have to compound and help grow our money. It is of one method to save for child education but the bad side is if the parent die, this method will have to put on hold or get discontinued.
4) Education plan ~ this is my preferred method. It is as simple as saving on our own, but just switching from saving in bank to insurance company. Instead of deposit the monthly saving of 300 or 500 in the bank, just putting the money into an insurance education plan. It is very important to safeguard the child's welfare should either one or both parents die or become incapacitated. And this can be safeguard through the plan which incorporates proper risk management - such as an education plan.

Some of my mommy friends told me they never think or plan such a long tem matter like child education. I would think that most probably I received my dream tertiary education overseas, sponsored by my dearest parent. This in turn has made me feel want to pass this 'excellent thing' to my beloved child. I would not want to just apology to my child that I can’t support them for higher education because of no planning or no monetary preparation beforehand.

I am not expecting or hoping my child are high scorer with flying color result, but at least they are given the opportunity to go through and enjoy the wonderful university life, just like mommy. I'm grateful for all that I have, own and understood. Thanks to my parents for everything and also fulfilled my dream to study in overseas country.

Those are the days which I treasure very much in my life......

Monday, May 07, 2007

Daddy's little model

Daddy just loves this series of QY close shoot, so natural and sweet.







Monday, April 30, 2007

Apr'07 Event



















Aunt Mooi Fong treated the group to 68 Kelawai for a sumptious semi-buffet lunch during her birthday.

























QY is the only kid in the group. She has to entertain herself by moving here and there in the restaurant.

























QY shares daddy and mommy's joyous for the new car.



















Believe it or not? This is shoot by QY from the back while daddy driving us to Giant.



















Eating ice cream while enjoying her story book




















Mommy takes care of QY and JH on 'cheng beng day'.




Saturday, March 31, 2007

Favourite Game

One of QY favourite game is to build the block that Ah mah bought for her. She loves to use her creative mind to build the block, sometimes a building, vehicle and some unknown object.




Thursday, February 22, 2007

CNY gathering

On the day 8 of CNY, mommy and mommy's high school mate came out for CNY gathering at Baskin Robin together with the kids. It was really fun and 'weird' when seeing the '2nd geneation friends' met, mixed and played around while all mummy were sat down and chatted. Time really really flew fast, those marching time under the scorching sun, the first aid lesson was like yesterday but it was 15/16 years ago....



















Lee Hua, Boon Yu, Lee Hua, Lee Lein, Lay Gaik and Lay Gaik. They are daughters and son to the above name mommy according to their standing position from left to right. :)























The kids with different pose... It was so tiring and exhausted to take photo for this group of kids with average age of 3 +.



















Baby Celine and Lee Hua



















Baby Sin Ming, newborn baby to Boon Yu

























I loved this series of photo very much as mommy and Lee Hua ee ee where close friend for more than 20 years, and it looks like our friendship continued to our next generation. Celest and QY were holding hand in hand while walking to Baskin Rosbin. They even chatted with each others like "This one can go... this one cannot go" when they see the door of the shop is closed. :)


This is another CNY gathering with daddy's friends and colleagues at Day 7 of CNY. QY got to meet up with few friends from 6 ages old to 8 months ago. Among all, she mixed well with the 6 ages old boy.







Wednesday, February 21, 2007

Chinese New Year

2007 CNY was the 3rd CNY for QY. Her 1st year CNY was when she was only 5 months old, and the 2nd year CNY was 17 months old. And this year she is 2.5 years old and seems like she enjoys much compared to the last 2 years. We had great time during CNY, meeting relatives and friends, playing, gambling and sleeping and rest a lot too.



















QY, 82 years old maternal great grandmother and JH after the New Year Eve's steamboat dinner.



















Ang Pao from maternal gong gong























Paternal Gong Gong, QY, Alicia and ah Mah on 1st day of CNY at Taiping.

























QY and JH meet on 2nd day of CNY at Ah Mah's place.

























Lion Dance at Ah mah's place which both QY and JH admired once a year.

























'Yu Shang' and dinner at Bali Bali.

























Taken photo with elephant at Bali Bali after the dinner.




















Went to great grandmother's house on 3rd day of CNY. Photo taken at the staircase which was mommy favourite place to play the 'paper doll' with mommy's cousin 25 years ago. :)





















QY met with Roy and Melody, son and daughter to aunt Bee Kee.

Friday, February 16, 2007

My Cheeky Girl

Mommy has been slacked since beginning of 2007, not posting and not updating QY's latest photo in this blog.

Now, QY is in her "Terrible 2" stage (a term used to describe how terrible a kid is when he/she is 2 years old). Some examples are like she use cry as a 'weapon' to get what she wants; fight with others over a same book, same toys or anything; scratch her own body, pull her own hair whenever people don't give what she wants and etc..... She is as terrible as 'evil' when she throw temper but on the other hand, she is such a lovely girl when her mood is right. Hope this is a 'normal' development for a 2.5 years kid and thing will be better she is getting older. No matter how, she is still my cheeky angel.

QY posted her funny face to us with her new dress and new sandal mommy bought for her for CNY.










































































They are like "twin" sis/bro. So cute!




































Mommy felt really funny and can't help but to laugh everytime I saw this photo she prayed like the statue besides her.