Thursday, May 31, 2007

All about Qian Yi in May'07

Lilypie 3rd Birthday Ticker

QY loves to imitate mommy from every aspect, the way I talk (especially the way I talk to her) and do.... Whenever I wear my sun-glass, she will say : "Mommy, I cannot see your eye". She is very excited when I help her to put on the sunglass on her little face"






Having fun at the basement at Sunshine Square after grocery shopping with Ah Mah and kong kong on a Sunday afternoon.




Don't know why, QY has a fear to swing down the long slide though she has always wanted to try whenever she see one in the park. Lately, with the help from mommy, she cope her fear and oh yes, swing all the way down....



Reading the new story book mommy just bought from Popular bookshop. I just hope to cultivate a good reading habit for her while young.



Tuesday, May 22, 2007

A Satuday schedule

Mommy got to spend 24 hours with QY last saturday, being a full time mother for a day.

As usual, QY attended the weekly phonic class on satuday morning, 11am-12 noon. I have been enrolled her since she was 18 months old. So far she has progressed rather well and most important is, she enjoys and having fun during the class very much.



















After class, we drove her to a saloon for hair cut. This is the 3rd time she has her 'formal' haircut in saloon. I intend to keep her hair long but she is so reluctant to let us tied her hair. Mommy will try to keep her hair till shoulder length, but still need QY's cooperation when comes to hair tieding time.

























Back to our house, after bath time, mommy put her on her favourite dress - Disney princess character bought for her from the market. Nowadays, QY is so fond of character like Barbie Doll and Princess.

























In the evenning, she dress up and get ready to attend ah mah's birthday dinner



















We celebrathed MIL 61st birthday at Tanjung country chinese restaurant. QY was so sweet, she even sang the birthday song solo for her ah mah... Ah mah was so happy that her grandchild has grown up from a newborn to a little girl that sang birthday song to wish her.

Thursday, May 17, 2007

Child's education

I have started to think of this topic ever since QY was 5 months old. I deeply believe that higher education is the gateway to a child’s future. It opens minds, which leads to endless opportunities. Therefore, it would be the most expensive gift that a parent will ever and must give to their beloved child. Not only it is a ‘gift’ to our kids, it is also our responsibility as a parent to do so in view of the highly competitive environment.

I attended several financial planning topic on how to fund our child education lately, and I thought it is good to share with all parents who might interested.:-

1) Do nothing ~ Some parent may not think that saving for child education is as important as planning for buying house, retirement and etc. In their top 3 priority list, buying house, buying luxury car and others may have filled up the list. When times come gradually, this group of parent will have to apply for a study loan from a financial institute bearing the rather high interest rate and the prescribed repayment period. If a choice is given, do u still want to consider this option?
2) Scholarship ~ When planning for child education, we shouldn’t include scholarship. Whether our child receive a scholarship or other form of financial aid, this should be treated as bonuses to parent ONLY.
3) Save on our own ~ this can be saving in the bank or unit trust. But one thing for sure is we must start as early as we can, the earlier we start the more time we have to compound and help grow our money. It is of one method to save for child education but the bad side is if the parent die, this method will have to put on hold or get discontinued.
4) Education plan ~ this is my preferred method. It is as simple as saving on our own, but just switching from saving in bank to insurance company. Instead of deposit the monthly saving of 300 or 500 in the bank, just putting the money into an insurance education plan. It is very important to safeguard the child's welfare should either one or both parents die or become incapacitated. And this can be safeguard through the plan which incorporates proper risk management - such as an education plan.

Some of my mommy friends told me they never think or plan such a long tem matter like child education. I would think that most probably I received my dream tertiary education overseas, sponsored by my dearest parent. This in turn has made me feel want to pass this 'excellent thing' to my beloved child. I would not want to just apology to my child that I can’t support them for higher education because of no planning or no monetary preparation beforehand.

I am not expecting or hoping my child are high scorer with flying color result, but at least they are given the opportunity to go through and enjoy the wonderful university life, just like mommy. I'm grateful for all that I have, own and understood. Thanks to my parents for everything and also fulfilled my dream to study in overseas country.

Those are the days which I treasure very much in my life......

Monday, May 07, 2007

Daddy's little model

Daddy just loves this series of QY close shoot, so natural and sweet.